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3 sex tips that guarantee ultimate pleasure

Thursday, November 19th, 2009 | Sex Tips | No Comments

Don’t try too hard: When it comes to great sex, be natural. Trying too hard will make the process harder as no matter how hard you try to curb it, you will let your partner know that you are trying too hard. This is especially true for men who think if he doesn’t try variety, the girl won’t enjoy the sack session. So he might just try to pull off tricks that might actually turn her off, since she would realize he is not really into the act.

Don’t think too much: There is the concept of Gourmet sex, which is touted to be the most fulfilling and satisfying form of sex. It basically means having sex with a free and easy mind and allowing it to be a satisfying experience. Bed is definitely not the place to think. This especially involves women who are extremely self-conscious of their image. While into the act, she is more busy thinking how the guy will react, or is she looking fat. This kind of stuff will pull you out of the moment and get you into a negative spiral where you become sexually ineffective.

Go for simple moves: Great sex is all about simple moves, done in the right manner at the right time. Yes, you have seen a lot of porn and read a lot of stuff and are highly educated on the variety of postures that a couple can enjoy. Wait a while before putting them to action. Good sex is about learning to feel not just with your hands, but with your fingertips too. It’s not just being in-tune with her screams, but even to her breathing.

Source: Times of India

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Once in a blue moon?

Tuesday, January 13th, 2009 | Lifestyle, Sex Tips | No Comments

If you and your other half can manage no nookie for a week or two, the sex that you eventually have can be mind-blowing. Preparing dinner together whilst very hot under the collar could see you tearing each other’s pants off and getting it on across the kitchen table or against the wall, or result in you bringing whole new meaning to the dining room chairs. Use your imagination, it could take you somewhere you’ve never been before!

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Laughter is a passion

Tuesday, January 13th, 2009 | Lifestyle, Sex Tips | No Comments

We don’t mean laughing over his shoulder at TV re-runs as he tries to send you into orbit, but where appropriate (no laughing at his bits) there’s nothing wrong with sharing a laugh during sex. It demonstrates intimacy, relaxation, trust, happiness and pleasure. Men that know how to turn women into giggling, purring kittens should really be replicated en masse.
Make it your duty to find one.

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Five minutes to fabulous sex

Wednesday, September 17th, 2008 | Celebrity Sex, Sex Tips | No Comments

WORLD tours, motherhood, keeping fit … it’s no wonder Madge allegedly gets her kicks in the bedroom by keeping sex as brief as possible.

Yes, according to superstar Madonna’s hubby Guy Ritchie, the secret to a happy sex life is keeping romps short and sweet – four seconds to be exact.

The film director told DJ Mike Toolan of Manchester radio station Key 103 that the saucy sex scene in his new movie RocknRolla was kept to a mere four seconds, because quickies – in real life and on screen - are the “best type of sex”.

But while four seconds of toe-tingling action is do-able on screen, it’s not always plausible to have world-beating and satisfying sex in that tiny time frame.

So we spoke to Val Sampson, couples counsellor and consultant to Durex Play to get some top tips on quality quickies.

“What you’re thinking about is that if you want to have wild sex when you get home in a very short time period, you need to prime yourself,” explains Val.

“If you had a terrible journey and caught your heel in something, you’re not going to feel in the mood so you need to think about sex during the day. Ideally 24 hours beforehand and basically, wake up your mind to the idea of sex. If you open your mind, the rest will follow.

Send a sexy message

“Apart from opening your mind, the number one tip is that women usually get turned on by what they hear and think.

“So you could get your partner to send you a sexy text – or call you during the day with a sexy message - saying how much he desires you and how gorgeous you are.

“You could also read erotic fiction. Those two are probably the two fastest routes to a quick turn on.

Tune in

“You just need to tune into your senses. You know if you’re walking down the street and you feel the wind blow on you, open yourself up to feeling it. And if you’re having a shower that morning rub body lotion into your body really carefully. Good quick sex is just about priming yourself.

“If you do these things beforehand, it is possible to have frantic sex within a short period of time. If you’re a clued-up woman, you might think about having some lubricant to hand.

“That’s not a sign of failure – it’s a sign you’re prepared. Sometimes it can take a woman longer to make their own natural lubricant and if you’re having quick sex without it, it can become uncomfortable.

“So if you have lubricant in your handbag, you can be sure that your man will enjoy it more and you know that you’re going to be comfortable as well.

Find your hotspots

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“Some women find having their nipples touched very arousing and that can help get you in the mood. But don’t worry if you don’t – a lot of women don’t.

“The other thing is that it’s also your job to find where your hotspots are so for some women that’s being kissed on the back of the neck or for others it’s on the wrist, but experiment to find out where your erogenous zones are then your partner can press the right buttons when they need to.

“If you do all these things and prime your body properly, you should be able to have fantastic sex in five minutes.”

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Teri Hatcher: ‘I Haven’t Been Giving My Daughter Sex Advice!’

Thursday, September 11th, 2008 | Celebrity Sex | No Comments

Teri Hatcher is refuting claims that she advised her young daughter to have “great sex [and] eat the chocolate” — insisting her advice column for a British magazine was taken out of context.

The Desperate Housewives star was left mortified when a leaked version of her new Glamour column led to headlines about sex advice she has been giving her child.

But Teri insists the world’s media misrepresented her comments.

She tells TV show Entertainment Tonight, “[The editor] asked me to write an article about what you would want to leave your child with … And so immediately, with my dark sense of humor, I imagined my high heel being stuck in a train track and a train coming — and they say your life flashes before your eyes — what would I think?

“And I would yell out all of these things … and I would yell out whatever, and then the second I was dead I would go, ‘Wait a second, what did I say? That wasn’t what I wanted to say at all!’ So I introduced the article with that sense of humor.

“In the intro to the article, I say in the sort of, you know, screaming way, ‘Eat chocolate, have sex, don’t stress out, life’s too short, don’t worry about the little things.’ I even added, ‘Don’t sit on public toilet seats and don’t forget to floss.’ Clearly, that’s supposed to be a funny riff. And right after that, literally the next sentence says, ‘That’s not what I would say to my daughter at all! Oh my God, what did I just say?’ Meaning that, it was [written] in a sense of humor.”

She added, “No matter what you want to be in life, whether it’s a doctor or an actress or a dogwalker, you have to work hard at it to be successful. That’s one of the points. I think those things. I really believe in those things. The sex and the chocolate is like a funny thing we all say.”

Criticizing the media for suggesting that she would advise her 10-year-old daughter to have sex, Hatcher said, “That is so slanderous to me. The is so egregiously accusing me of horrible parenting when I have done nothing in my life and in my celebrity life but vocalize how important parenting should be to each and every one of us.”

Glamour editor Jo Elvin added, “Quotes taken from Teri Hatcher’s October British Glamour article have been grossly misreported and taken out of context by the worldwide media.

“We are disappointed that the true meaning of the column, written by Teri, which is always heartfelt and thought-provoking, has been twisted in this way in order to manufacture a headline. False media claims report Teri telling her daughter to have great sex (and) eat the chocolate, but… this misstates Teri’s words.

“In fact, in her column, she said that this is ‘not what I wanted my daughter to know at all.’

“Teri Hatcher is a wonderful mother and the article truly represents great messages about living life as a woman and a mother with grace, humor and wisdom. We will be posting the article on [their website] so that it can be read in its entirety and true context.”

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